A note to all ye women who show off your bits!

This will be short and sweet.(maybe not so sweet though)

There shall be no attempt at any kind of depth or genuine insight in this piece...

As the title suggests...its a little comment at women who give you the "how dare you" look when your eyes happen to fall upon their cleavage or a check out their legs or arse when they're wearing what can only be described as a belt for a skirt..

We're all human beings with primal urges who have a clear definition of what we're attracted to (for the most part), as much as we've advanced and educated and refined ourselves, beneath it all we are still very much animals, with animalistic urges. we know what we find attractive, we know what arouses us, so when we see a woman walking along the street wearing tight clothing or a fantastically short skirt or a revealing top, we're going to look.

"But why dont you look at our faces?" Because everywhere we look we can see faces, if theres one thing we're spoilt for, is faces..(unless you're living in the middle east, but thats a different story altogether) and in fairness, if your face was that amazing you probably wouldn't feel the need to leave nothing to the imagination and wear the equivalant of a tea cosy for a dress..

I for one find it quite flattering when i catch a woman checking me out with admiring glances, i dont think "uggghh you perv" i dont have any issues with the way i look but it's still a nice little confidence booster, call it recognition of your attractiveness if you will..

I should probably make the distinction at this point between "Admiring glances" and "leering". Looking at a woman and admiring her attributes in passing is fine and totally healthy. However, to the type of guy who will sit there and stare at a woman in a disrespectful manner and make her feel totally uncomfortable, perhaps that type of person should have limited access to the public doman!

So women... whether you're of the "tea cosy for a dress" persuasion, or you happen to be a genuinely attractive woman with the gift of beautiful features, don't look back at us with that snotty look when we happen to check you out, don't give us that look as if we're a potential sex offender foaming at the mouth, forget this feminist crap, and just accept that its literally a simple case of one human being displaying an attraction for another human being, however brief it may be, that is all it is.

And Men, don't be afraid to look at what you're attracted to, dont be made to feel like a sleazebag for looking at what you find attractive, you're a natural human being, denying yourself what you're attracted to is denying what makes you human, so if you find someone attractive then look, hell, even smile, you never know what might happen : )  

(NOTE: The comment about "feminist crap" should not be taken in an offensive manner, i have the utmost repsect for women and the female form, but the idealogy behind it etc causes an even stronger degree of seperation between the two sexes when simply we are all just human beings and shouldn't have to impose these limitations on ourselves)